Online dating not working for me

Most reasonably attractive women here will receive many messages. They choose the men with the best profiles that stand out from the others. Would you do it differently if you received messages from 10, 20, 30 different women?

But men around the forums seem to want to rationalize their lack of success and blame it on the women rather than look at themselves and what they are doing.

They don't want you badly enough to try and placate you. Guess you should have been dating a hundreds years ago. Is it shallow for a woman to want a man that is at least her height if not taller? So movie releases on Beta had to go on two tapes instead of one and be switched half way through the movie. Obesity and anorexia however, smack of psyche problems, and I tend to avoid those kind of people, both male and female.

Decent pictures, although too many dancing and not in other situations.Every male on here whining about lack of activity needs to do a serious self assessment. It is probably that you are trying to play in the majors when you only have single A talent (baseball reference, it is spring! You have a choice, get a reality check or continue being the whining, frustrated dateless person you currently are. If they arent responding chances are you are overestimating your marketability. I think POF works just fine and I'm follically challanged, grammatically average, old and a turrible kisser ;) to boot. By stating that you are less than 5' tall you are shooting yourself in the foot. As much as we hate it, people read stats in online dating and it influences them. Obesity and anorexia however, smack of psyche problems, and I tend to avoid those kind of people, both male and female.If they arent responding chances are you are overestimating your marketability. I can do as much as I wish or as little as I wish on POF. I'm not a psychologist, and have no intention of becoming one.I used to sort of think that way a bit at first but then I spent more time on POF, tried some different things, and had more success meeting women.While there are undoubtedly a small percentage of women as you describe I find it hard to believe that the majority women here are like that.

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