Purity in dating relationships Live webcam chat room adult1
Physical contact is meant to express affection, not to sexually arouse either you or your partner. Guard your heart and your partner’s heart from lust.
Whenever there is sexual arousal, you have transgressed the guideline of the “Holy Kiss” and have sinned in the use of your freedom to express physical closeness.
For example, spending time alone in your room late at night with the door shut is probably not the best idea.
Invite your Christian brothers into the boundaries and standards you have set in your relationship so that they can encourage you and keep you accountable. I saw one dating couple interacting before going into a social event.
When we think of a physical standard for dating, it might be helpful to consider how we related to a brother or sister within our family: expressing affection without it ever being sexual in nature (never aimed at causing sexual arousal).
This is sound advice and certainly helpful, but we want to suggest an alternative focus.
Take a look at the following verses: We would suggest the “Holy Kiss” principle on the physical dimension of your dating relationships, provided your Bible doesn’t translate the word “holy” as “French.” As infants, as children and as adults, physical contact is the primary way we show care, protection, affirmation, encouragement and love for each other.
This means you should initiate the conversation very early in the relationship.
You should also be in a position of knowing what type of physical contact is appropriate and what is not.